I have been pushing myself a little crazy with the impending visit of my MIL–not because she is coming but because our house wasn’t ready for her to come.  I am so excited for her to get to spend some quality time with Minnow.  He hasn’t seen her since February and I am sad about that.  I wish she could/would visit more.  I know this is a big change from what I thought last year after she came, but I have begun to understand, realize and accept that it isn’t about me or hubby.  It isn’t even about my MIL it is about Minnow and his future sister and any other kids we have.  It is important for them to get to have this time with their grandparents.  Grandparents are great and Minnow has a great relationship with my parents because he sees them every week.  But sadly he only sees hubby’s parents once or twice a year.  It saddens me. I was lucky enough to have my parents stay married but my grandparents were all still married and they lived in town.  They were a big part of my life and some of my fondest memories are of spending time with them.  I know Minnow will have those types of memories about my parents but I really want him to have those memories of hubby’s parents as well. 

We will be home this holiday season and I will try to post a few times when I can.  I hope you all take a breath and enjoy the special blessings that make life truely great. 

Happy Holidays