UGH!!!!!!!!!!!! or Day 9

At least 8 families ahead of us on waiting list for an infant girl.  We still have a long wait ahead of us......(Maybe we will add another son.  Don't. Know. How. Long. I. Can. Wait.) We will wait for a girl--as I bought a really cute pair of girl pants and Minnow already gets mistaken … Continue reading UGH!!!!!!!!!!!! or Day 9

Adoption Is Not Charity or Day 7

Please let me start by reminding folks that I am an adoptive parent.  I have one son adopted from Ethiopia--home over a year and am in process of adopting a daughter from Ethiopia.  Please let me also say that these are only my views and opinions and are in no way judgements of others.  It is … Continue reading Adoption Is Not Charity or Day 7

Finally…The Reveal Part Deux

Having chosen international adoption over domestic for the reason detailed in The Reveal we needed to chose a country.  This was more difficult than I could have imagined.  For a number of reasons, one being that I have a really hard time making up my mind.  I always have and I always tend to question why I … Continue reading Finally…The Reveal Part Deux

The Reveal

When we were going through our process of adopting Minnow I was questioned often about "why adoption?" "Why International and not domestic?"  "Why Ethiopia?" and so forth.  They are hard questions to answer.  Not because I didn't know the answer but because, let's be honest it really isn't anyone's business.  I never really considered asking … Continue reading The Reveal