Letters

Noah’s class is doing a unit on letters. The kids are fascinated with letters and write notes (draw pictures) in class and put them in each others mailboxes.

They recently write letters to pen pals at a neighboring school. It’s cute.

I love letters. I shared with Noah that I have all my letters/notes from high school. While he can’t read them noelr should he, we talked how special letters and communicating in writing is. Maybe he’ll be a letter writer for life.

Moments

Noah is in “love.”  He has a sweetheart.  They already talk about getting married as if it’s a forgone conclusion that when they are “old” (like fourteen) they are going to get married.  It is ridiculously adorable.  They met last year and they have been inseparable since.  The above picture is of them holding hands at the halloween parade last year.  She is his best friend and they are absolutely adorable together.  They help each other with their coats and carry things for each other.

They were both pretty sure that their first playdate (pictured above) was going to be a sleep over.  When they found out it wasn’t, they both demanded to know when they could have a sleepover.  We just when you are older but not too old.

This school year, their classroom has had to institute new rules because of them–no hand holding, back rubbing, etc.  They will sit next to each other and rub each others backs, hold hands and lay their heads on each other’s shoulders.  There is already the brewings of a love-triangle.  I can’t believe I just wrote that.  My son is only 4 (almost 5).  There is another little boy in class who likes S.  I am sure it’s because she is not such the girly girl and likes to play with the boys–well with Noah really.  S went to far as to be honest and tell A that “I don’t think you are handsome.  I only think Noah is handsome.”  A cried and Noah felt happy that S only thought he was handsome.  I can only fear where this will lead in the future, since they will all be in school for many many years together.

Their relationship has blossomed.  I love to watch Noah get all shy when S is around.  It is so cute.  We made picture frames at the holiday party for Noah’s class and Noah made a green one with a heart shape.  Over break, he looked at the frame and asked “Mom, do you have any pictures of me and S?”

“yes.”

“Can you print one for me to put in the frame?  I want to give it to S.”

He then took the frame down and proceeded to write her name.  It was too cute.  So I printed out the picture–after much deliberation of which photo to choose.  I wanted to do the one from the play date (above) but Noah insisted that he no longer had short hair and so it wasn’t a good picture.  He was so excited about giving her the present, but then he got to school.  He was all shy and didn’t want anyone else to see it “because it was a private present for S.”

S also had a present for him that she bought for him over break–a key chain that has his name on it.  These two are always giving each other presents.  It’s adorable and cute and I really hope Noah cherishes…okay so I mean me…these moments as they are so sweet, innocent, and pure.

Oh did I forget to mention that at first he thought it would be funny to use the picture of him wearing only the iron man mask.  And when I say only, I do me ONLY.  So we had a talk about how it’s not only not appropriate to show any one your privates in person, it is also not appropriate to give anyone (especially a girl) a picture of your privates–just ask Brett Favre how that works out.

Use The Force Luke

Stars Wars mania has officially hit our house.  Noah is CRAZY about Star Wars.  He has watched the first round of movies (4, 5, & 6)-talk about confusing for a kid of only 4.  Then he started watching Clone Wars (the animated series based on the newer movie (#2) and the is now obsessed but also so confused.  His little brain can only process so much.  Luke and Anakin is really confusing for him.  How is Anakin the dad when Lukc is older, etc.  It’s cute.  We had to get a light saber that lights up and makes noise.  Luckily one of the stores in Downtown Disney has a station where you can make your own light saber–Noah (Well Bill really) enjoyed that.  We have had lots and lots of light saber duels in the past 3 days.

I love Star Wars and think it’s an awesome bunch of movies and such an imaginative and intriguing story.  I have the fondest memory of waiting in line with my dad and brothers to see The Empire Strikes Back.  It was awesome.  My dad loves Star Wars and will be so excited to share his love with Noah.  I just have to say that I was not ready for Star Wars mania to start so soon.  He is only 4.  Okay 4 1/2.  SpikeTV is airing all 6 movies this weekend 1-3 on Saturday and 4-6 on Sunday.  Noah already has me recording them so we can watch them all.  It’ll be a long weekend with my little Yoda. But priceless.

Also, there is nothing cuter than a 3-year-old little girl saying “Luke, I am your father” in her best Darth Vader voice.  That will keep me laughing for a long time.

Explaining Love

Noah is at the age now where he is starting to really care about other people.  He has always been a kind and gentle soul, but I have seen it develop and morph.  He has a “girlfriend”–I know he is totally too young but it is the absolute cutest thing in the world.  We were driving to school yesterday and I brought up love.  He said he didn’t love Sophie.  So we talked about love and how there are different kinds of love–even though our inadequate language only has one word for it.  I explained that there is the love you have for your family and that is the strongest and most important love and that most other love will not come close to rivaling the love one has for their family.  And Noah talked about how much he loved me, his dad and his sister.  And we talked about how much his grandparents loved him and his uncles, etc.

I then said we also come to love many of our friends, but that it’s a bit of a different kind of love.  But that when we love our friends we really look out for them and would be really really sad if something bad every happened to them and we would want to protect them.  He was so cute–he said “like one time when Sophie was hanging upside down on the climber and not holding on with any hands and it made me a little scared because she could fall.”  I said “yeah.”

“I love Sophie, mom.  She loves me too.”

They keep each other warm.  They hold hands at school and help each other get their coats on, etc.  The school has drawn the line at them being bathroom buddies.  They petition us for a sleep over.  They have been inseparable since the first day they met in Aug 2009.  The innocence of “love.”