I have been bitchy lately. I thought it was PMS bitchy at first, but it isn't. That is a much different type of bitchy--a much more raving lunatic type. No, the bitchy I am feeling comes from that uncomfortable, where do I fit, what is my role kind of bitchy. The honeymoon is over. I … Continue reading The Honeymoon is Over

NO ONE TELLS YOUthat you will reach a point when you can't do it all so you just stop tryingthat at 1:30am after only being asleep for 1 hour your son will not stop crying until you understand your own limitsthat the love you feel for your child will trump everything elsethat your mom will … Continue reading What no one tells you…

I would write but we are having a rare moment when he isn't smiling....If interested http://www.finley-family.net

Well, I will post more about Ethiopia in the days to come, but I want to write about now....Tomorrow will mark the 2 week mark of being home. It is hard to believe that it has been two weeks. I really feel as thought Minow has been part of our life forever. I certainly can't … Continue reading The First Two Weeks

We woke up Wednesday feeling completely dejected. I felt that we would never get Minnow at this point. We were taken to immigration again in the morning. Surprise, Surprise the passport wasn't ready yet. We ended up back at the hotel sans baby around 11. I can't express how sad I was. I laid on … Continue reading Wednesday August 23