Leaving On A Jet Plane (or Two)

It’s early…My first flight doesn’t leave for 6 hours but who could sleep at a time like this?  I am so excited and nervous and happy and anxious.  This adoption is slightly different from our first.  Peepers is a little more than 2 months older than Minnow was.  Peepers was nearly 4 months old before she was moved to Wanna from Sele Enat whereas Minnow was at Wanna from the time he was 20 days old.  Peepers is a girl and Minnow was a boy.  I know each child is different.  I worry about the ease and/or difficulty with attachment.  I hope she attaches as well as Minnow did.  I love her so much already.   I hope that she likes me.  I know she will because I will feed her, hold her, shower her with affection and really awesome clothes.  What girl doesn’t love clothes.  But I am a stranger.  She does not know that I am coming.  She does not understand why these people are taking her away.   I know she will eventually–I am hoping sooner rather than later–come to understand that we are her family.  I am worried because she is older and more aware of what is going on.  Those of you who brought your Ethiopian babies home when they were 7 months or older–have any awesome reassurance for me? 

I am packed and ready.  I have everything I need. 

Now off to the babe.  I hopefully will have brilliant and amazing stories to post on Monday.  Keep a look out for tales of my meeting with Peepers and my 58-year-old father’s first reaction to a developing nation and his first trip outside of the United States.  So much excitement. 

See you soon.

5 thoughts on “Leaving On A Jet Plane (or Two)

  1. I think she will do wonderfully! Micah was almost 6 months old and he started the attachment very quickly – he turned to my voice after two days together. So, I think Peepers, even though she is a bit older, will do great. You are one of the most loving moms I know – she will come to know your love quickly because you give it so freely!
    Happy Travels! We’ll be following along here!

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  2. Ohhhhhh! I have goose bumbs just thinking of you meeting her! I have the same worries…but I know it will go well for us both. Our friends just saw our babies yesterday and they are doing well! I can’t wait to read about your trip.
    Becky

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  3. Gracie was 7 months old when she came home, and attachment has never been a problem. She gave us a slightly strange look when she woke up in our bed in Addis on the first morning she was with us, but she has been our’s from the smile that followed…on. Peepers should do just fine. You love her, she will feel that, and all will be well. 8^)

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  4. I know you’ve already met her and things are swell, but I will add that Amelie was 10 months old and attachment went really well. We took her swimming and that was IT for all of us :).

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